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Tue 17 Sep, 2013 10:18 am
Lets start with some details my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, we have a great sex life and see each other about 2 or 3 times a week. Now I have a very high sex drive and pretty much always want to have sex and for the most part my boyfriend keeps up with me pretty well. So here’s my problem does it make sense that it bothers me that when my boyfriend and I are not together that I masturbate (every day) using my imagination and 99% of the time I always think about my boyfriend but, when he masturbates he watches porn and it seems like I’m the last thing on his mind, is that okay? Or maybe even normal? Or should I confront my boyfriend about this?
Men are more visual than women and need that kind of stimulation, usually from TV or magazines. Leave him alone.
At least he's not with another live woman.
@PUNKEY,
Thanks for your input and I'm very thankful to be with someone that is faithful but, it does make me feel like I'm more attracted to him than he is to me and that's why he chooses to watch porn. Oh and by the way I use to watch porn all the time when I was single I don't when I'm in a relationship, it's a loyalty kind of thing to the person I'm with.
@KKay26,
Fachrissakes, find something important to worry about. This is chickenshit.
@KKay26,
Normal or not, you won't be able to control your boyfriend's thoughts. Since from your description he doesn't seem to be doing things behind your back, and since you say you're otherwise happy in your relationship, I'd let it be.
@Thomas,
I agree with Thomas. But what your boyfriend is doing is also normal. It is just fantasy.
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