i want a white boyfriend

Bri if that's one of your biggest problems in life then consider yourself very fortunate and date whom you like. As a white male I risk accusations of racism when I reveal that looking back, in my youth I might have found a black girl friend the ultimate of sexiness

What makes you think just because a dude is white that he's going to be any better? Sharpen your skills at finding a good guy. Bad ones are all around. Find a kind, smart and funny guy. Most likely they are in your school, but you are not seeing that one special guy.

Surely you don't have to date anyone! What sort of age group are you in? Skin colour doesn't make a boy better or worse - but you'll find that out as you grow older. Wanting to date white boys is no different from saying you want to date red-headed guys, or ones who are a certain height or age - hopefully you'll look for more important qualities in men as you grow older.

Isn't there any way of joining clubs outside of your neighbourhood, or studying some course or hobby that would take you away from the area into one where you might meet different people?

When I was 16, my Dad said he wanted to give me some advice about women. I wondered what the hell he was going to say, he isn't exactly the sort of person to talk about that kind of thing. Anyhow it turned out to be "Don't go out with redheads, or Welsh women". Because both are bad tempered, he said.

Con you've again made my day