Foxfyre:
You said:
Quote:Does anyone believe it is okay for a mother to kill a one-week old baby or a one-month old baby or a five-year-old child because she decides she doesn't want to be a mother? Those who oppose abortion say no and neither is it okay to kill the child before it is born. It is her right to become pregnant or not. Once she does, then the child she carries is a human life and the issue becomes the child's right to life as much as the mother's dilemma of an unwanted pregnancy.
That issue needs to be decided before the 'extenuating circumstances' such as rape, incest, a badly deformed fetus, the life of the mother, etc. are discussed as separate issues.
It's not a "child" until it can live on its own - in the care of anyone. Until it can breathe and eat.
Every egg and every sperm are alive when they are in our bodies. Are they entitled to grow into people too? Do they have that right? Where do you draw the line?
If a woman is taking birth control pills it is obvious she is choosing not to have a child. If conception occurs even when she's using birth control she's made her choice but technology or her body has changed her circumstances into a situation that was not her choice. Her choice is to not be pregnant and that is her right and should be.
Spiritual question for you about an aborted embryo:
What do you believe happens when the embryo is aborted? What do you believe happens when a person dies?
I'm curious about this because I often wonder if the uproar about abortion is because the embryo wouldn't be allowed in to heaven because it wouldn't be able to utter its belief. Is this the case?
Quote:In the issue of 'gay marriage', the debate first needs to be whether the traditional institution of marriage is valuable for society and whether that is worth preserving and strengthening. Once that is decided, then the issues of 'gay marriage' and/or formation of other family units can be addressed including the issues of 'special rights' and 'equal protection under the law', etc.
If we reason together instead of attacking each others' points of view, we might be able to arrive at more consensus or compromise than will ever otherwise be possible.
Marriage is valuable to society. It provides stability for children and for the partners engaged in the marriage.
How does allowing gay people to wed weaken traditional straight marriage? I don't follow.
If I order wonton soup and then the guy at the next table orders it too - it doesn't make my soup any less good, nor does it make the soup any less desireable.
Are you scared that if gays are allowed to marry then everyone is going to want to run out and be married gay people? What is the fear?
Please explain.