losing virginity

Well, you're not giving yourself a lot of options there.

Might I suggest Googling gay internet dating sites or gay support groups online? Get to know men. You may find that there are gay men in your area, and you just didn't know. Or you might find you want you want something more than just to jettison your virginity, and actually have a relationship with someone. You know, with caring 'n stuff.

I'd have more respect for you if you said you'd like a relationship - but you just want to have sex.

Why Punky?

Sex and relationships are independent things. You can have one without the other.

There's an app for that.