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Fri 26 Jul, 2013 11:29 am
I'm a 21 year old student and my boyfriend of 2 years always watches sexy guy music videos while working out. I'm talkin' car washes and sexy "call me maybe" videos. It has recently began to bug me. We both workout, I just don't watch the video. I'm thinking it may be a jealous fear that a model is what he wants and I'm not sure if I can ever live up to that. What should I do? We are both gay men.
@needadvice07,
Trust him. He's with you for the past 2 years not with some video actor. Some people just enjoy/need having a video distraction as they work on their physical being. If you have any doubts, have a conversation with him, let him know you're feeling a little insecure. Most likely nothing to fret over.
@needadvice07,
It's just eye candy. Not enough here to worry about unless there is something you aren't telling us.
If it bothers you so much, do your own music and lead the exercise program for both of you.