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There is one guy in my office, with whom i had my first kiss.....which was a total surprise. we both had no intention of those things.
things got along and we made it out.
for him, this was not the first encounter....he has done stuffs wit many gals, i was just another gal.
For me it was the first time., well, i am still a virgin.
It was like Friends with benefits kinda relation,. i thought it was normal and moving on......but he is making me feel guilty about my actions.....
nowadays all his words have deep meaning, i am just scared.

em scared, what if this one mistake of mine would cause an effect on my future??
should i avoid him??
stop talking to him???
What should i do ???

What ever he talks, i feel like he talks keeping that day in mind.

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@Dippy03,

you made out and still you are a virgin ??

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@jermychriston,

In Australia at least 'made out' usually just means kissing.

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@Pearlylustre,

Same here, but did you catch the "friends with benefits reference"?

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@Dippy03,

If it bothers you that much to be around him, look for other work.

And please learn a few lessons from this, like, I dunno -

Don't date coworkers. Ever.
Don't be passive in relationships, just doing whatever the other person wants; you'll never be happy that way. And
Friends with benefits is an extremely artificial situation and it rarely works out, as usually one of the participants wants more than the other is willing or able to give.

Oh and one more - there are other fish in the sea. Stop obsessing about this one guy and you'll find there are a lot of other people out there to date.

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How is HE making you feel guilty?

He should be ashamed that he uses his female co-workers for romance.

Do your work and stay away from him. He is a user of woman.

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@roger,

I'm with Roger :

- we made out, and were friends with benefits
- it's my first kiss, first making out, first friends with benefits
- it didn't mean anything to me, I just thought it was normal, and I moved on

Those three sentences almost never go together, and;

- I'm still a virgin (so we didn't have sex)
- and he's rather a ladies men and been with lots of ladies
- and after just a kiss, he's harrassing me for more

Those three are unusual together.

I think the major problem here is that some rather important information has been left out.

Again!!

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