Making the move

Just exactly what is it that she dislikes about SanDiego;

oops....................or is it that you haven't asked her????

Her and I have dated before and now we are friends. She knows that I am moving, but I also have no clue as to how she feels about it.

If you are a man of enterprise, regard it as the test of your love

and remember; SanDiego is not Mars!

What exactly do you mean by that statement?

I just found out some interesting news. I spoke with one of her friends and she stated that she has been planning on moving out there as well for the summer. Ironic or Fait? I guess she has been talking about this for some time now!

Never relegate another's decisions to 'irony', nor count on 'fate'; DO something!

Do what!?

Come ON! You're in love with this girl, Mikeymike! Ask her to go with you! You can get separate places if you like.

What are you going to wait for? Till your old and grey and rocking on the front porch wondering what if I asked? or told her how I felt?

Even if it does not go well it will be closure and you can move forward with your new life. Leaving things open just so you don't get rejected will torment you later. You will keep wondering.

Like Eva said...you can get seperate places.

Hate to say it...but I made that mistake. Found out to late that she too was afraid to say anything herself. If you think its killing you now...its worse later when you find out she would have gone with her if you asked. If she doesn't then then the door is closed and you can focus on that new life.

Good luck!

I have recieved word that she is going to be there this summer through a friend of hers. Then I heard it from her Where she will be staying at will be like 2 seconds away from me she said!

Looks like everything is falling into place, Mikeymike! Now all you have to do is tell her how thrilled you are that she will be there, too, and make plans to help each other get settled into your new places.

what we seem to have here is a failure to communicate.

Yep, I agree, dys. Both of them are afraid to come out and tell each other how they feel. Ain't it great not to be that young any more?!

If you love something let it go,if it comes back then so be it, if it doesnot come back,do not hunt it down or pursue it.

not so sure if its age or the fact that we are not in his shoes...those love hormones can sure make life interesting...opening yourself up like can make you feel naked in a crowd...it does sound she is working in the same direction.