@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:
Quote:Name calling" seems to be a necessary part of Internet forums. Get past it; join in and return fire; or get past it.
In my opinion, it way way beyond name callings in any normal sense and that pressure from the community as a whole could reduce this silliness and that would benefit all of us.
Being call stupid or irrational or ill inform is one thing having a statement edit so someone can claimed that you had admitted to being a pedophile is another matter.
With special note of the person doing the editing happen to be the main person claiming to be the moral and PC police.
There is an expression we Americans use that goes: Stop pissing into the wind.
It has two meanings:
First, it means you are probably undertaking a task that cannot meet with success.
Second, it suggests that you try a different direction.
I suggest to you that to a person who enjoys and engages in name-calling, there is little difference between "you are a **** head" and "therefore you are a pedophile."
Trying to change that kind of person...or trying to find a forum where that kind of person does not exist...is "pissing into the wind" in the former sense of the expression.
You have two choices:
Get past it (let it happen and do not respond; letting it bother you as little as possible)...or...
...returning fire.
Choose one of those.
Complaining like you are doing is feeding the name-caller...making him happy.