@hawkeye10,
Quote:this is very strange and does not make sense so there is a piece missing the ties it together. I am arguing that it must be either love or money, and I am betting on money.
What money? Whose money?
Zimmerman is the one more in need of money--if he's indigent, he's been living in her house and sponging off her. Unless he lied to another judge about his assets and has some money stashed somewhere. The man, who has always been in debt, long before any of his legal woes, is now saddled with a mountain of debt, and no earning capacity. He's blown whatever he could have made from books or films, because of his post-acquittal antics, and one interview might be all people are willing to listen to, and interviews don't pay that much.
Love?
Depends by what you mean by love.
From what she told the reporter, it sounded more like compassion and affection on her part, and, whatever romance or passion was there didn't last long, since she said the relationship began falling apart about a month after it started, mainly because of his emotional problems.
Quote:ya, but you have GF as the probable victim, I have her as the probable user/abuser
No, I don't see her as the victim, and I think they're both using each other.
We don't know what this woman is like, or what her life was like before the end of August when she got involved with Zimmerman. We know more about what his life has been like, particularly since he killed Martin, and it ain't been good, and his future prospects don't look very sunny, and I can believe that he's deeply depressed and flirting with the idea of suicide, and he's always had problems with his anger, so he must really be a barrel of laughs to live with now.
It sounds like his girlfriend has been his only source of emotional support for the past few months, so my guess is that he needs her a lot more than she needs him right now. He's not close to his family, and, just as he used Shellie to help get him through the pre-trial and trial stress, even though their marriage was pretty much over, I think he's been using his girlfriend to get him through his post-trial and divorce stress, she's his emotional crutch. I think he's probably in too much inner emotional turmoil, and too much emotional neediness, at this point in his life, to be able to manage anything approximating a healthy relationship with anyone.
So I think you're being overly simplistic in trying to view this relationship in terms of a victim/abuser dichotomy.
I don't think her 911 call was "stupid"--first she talked to a reporter, allegedly as a way of trying to get some "help" for George, to push him into some kind of psych treatment, and she might have called 911 for the same reason, to essentially snap him into realizing he was out of control and needed help. She wasn't really in terror of him when she made the call--she made the call
after he allegedly pointed the shotgun at her--she just couldn't deal with the way he was acting, she wanted him to get out of her house, and he wasn't going. And the police did find her locked out of her house, with George barricaded inside, she didn't make that up, and he had thrown her out of her own house before, according to what she told the reporter. Who wants to live that that? She doesn't hate the man, she just can't deal with him, and he does need help, and I can't see why anyone would doubt that.
Personally, I don't care about the domestic relationship of these two, or whether they stay together or not.
I'm more interested in how the allegedly indigent Zimmerman was suddenly able to afford an expensive high profile lawyer, and what went on between that lawyer and his girlfriend that resulted in her dropping the charges, and whether this violated any ethical boundaries on the lawyer's part, in terms of her possibly manipulating, or coercing, Scheibe to do that, solely for the benefit of her client.
And I truly don't think my questions are likely to be answered, not honestly at any rate.
And I hope Zimmerman gets himself some psychiatric help and fades into oblivion. Unless he does something dramatic, or gets himself involved with the police again, the media isn't interested in him, and even his run-ins with the police are getting tiresome. The man has a lot of problems, and people are tired of hearing about them.