@BillRM,
Funny, in college, I knew lots of engineering students who met and dated lots of girls, went to parties, hung out with friends, etc. In fact, I dated many of them. And those guys got great grades to boot and went on to grad school at the top universities in the country.
So you just must have been a loser, BillRM. The kind that girls don't want to bother with, and the kind other men really don't want to hang out with either.
And you must have spent your life not working with or socializing with any middle class or professional class African-Americans--you know, college professors, lawyers, doctors, office managers, social workers, administrative assistants etc. or you'd know that the children of these people--people just like Sybrina Fulton, Trayvon's mother--generally head toward college, just like Trayvon's older brother did, and Trayvon was planning to do, and they don't forsake the comforts, and advantages, of a middle class life to become street "hoodlums". That idea is really laughable.
And those with concerned and involved and loving dads, like Tracy Martin, Trayvon's dad, are very unlikely to become "one of the far too many black young men all too likely to spend large percents of their lifespans behind bars."--they have opportunities available to them, they have good male role models, they have discipline and guidance, they have families that support and value education, they have promising futures, they have a nice life-style, and absolutely no logical reason to turn to crime--which is why Trayvon Martin was never involved in any criminal or anti-social activity in his community. And, while he might have liked to smoke an occasional joint, that's about the only drug he apparently used, and it's one known to mellow people out and make them feel relaxed. He was a nice decent kid. He may not have been an angel, but few 16 year olds are angels. He still was a nice decent kid.
The night he was killed, Trayvon Martin was the house guest of a woman who, I think, is a correction officer in a juvenile detention facility. She has nothing but good things to say about Trayvon, and about how well behaved he was. If Trayvon was any sort of "hoodlum" or "thug" or criminal type, this woman would have seen and recognized that, she wouldn't have wanted him in her home, and she definitely wouldn't have wanted him near her own son, who is about 14 and lives in that home.
It must really unsettle your fantasies, but George Zimmerman profiled the wrong kind of kid that night--and even he knows that now too. The one he decided to stalk wasn't a "punk" or a "hoodlum" or a "thug" or planning to do anything criminal that night--he was just a high school kid returning to where he was staying, and he wanted to get there to watch a basketball game. And he knew his dad and his fiancée would soon be returning home from where they had gone for dinner. And the 14 year old in the home had asked Trayvon to bring him back some Skittles from the 7/11 store...
George Zimmerman made one error in judgment after another that night--he profiled the wrong kid, he followed "a suspect" when he should not have done that, he failed to identify himself, and he likely used lethal force in a situation where it was unnecessary, particularly given his minor injuries, the fact his opponent was an unarmed skinny kid, Zimmerman was a trained fighter, and he knew the police were en route. Zimmerman acted with reckless disregard for Martin's welfare from the moment he began stalking this kid in the dark. His impaired judgment, and poor impulse control, and personal obsessions, kept him from just remaining in his vehicle until the police arrived to check things out. Zimmerman's reckless actions intruded on Trayvon Martin's life, and created the conditions that led to that child's totally needless and avoidable death. Had Zimmerman not bothered or hounded Trayvon Martin, that child would have made it home unharmed, in time to watch that basketball game.
You just can't deal with reality, BillRM. An armed adult stalked an innocent child in the dark, and he wound up killing him. Because Zimmerman escaped legal consequences for his actions does not make anything he did that night right, let alone morally right, nor does it mean that the victim is to blame for his own death, and it certainly does not mean he deserved to die.
Zimmerman profiled the wrong kind of kid. He's got to live with that, and so do you, no matter how delusional your attempts to turn this innocent victim into a cartoon of a ghetto criminal thug.