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can i continue my relationship

 
 
Reply Mon 17 Jun, 2013 10:36 am
Hi , i was loving a guy for past 2 years..actually he is 6 months younger than me. after i started loving him,everything went fine for 2 months..one day due to fight between us he have told him mom about our love.him mom didnt accept him love.so he started to neglecting me.i went behind him for 2 months.but he never had any feelings for me and avoided me a lot...my sister told that he is not worth so better u leave him,he would not be good to ur future..but i cant able to do that since i love him lot......then one day i went to meet him drectly and problem has beesn solved ..he told dat he wont get a girl like me even if ur mom search a girl..since him mom is having lot of love on him,since bec of that i done like dat..sorry ....den everything is fine..but sometimes i will get cry lot by thinking that incident .....actually i am a girl with lots of dreams.......i like to enjoy with my lover.usually i used to talk with guys..but he told dat he doesnt like when i talk with guys.so i stopped speaking with guys after that ...i am so sensitive in his matter..i will do anything for him.i ave changed me and my character a lot for him..if we had fights i am the first to go and speak with him even if he done the mistake.....i have noted each and every thing and i remembered each and every small thing of him..but he never do that...he doesnt remember the day which i loved him..i felt so much bad on dat day.....he just said sorry....even after that he never changed him anything for me.....he wont speak with me in love..even if we had fight he wont come and tell sorry and speak with me even if he done mistake...i like to enjoy life with him..i like to share and i like to be mutual in everything....but he doesnt....atlast now i got job in good company..but they have resigned me...since i was not mingling with my team members(guys)...i am very much sad bec of that..but at that time he was enjoying lot in his office..he is speaking with every girls,he is going ouu with guys and girls...i toldn not to go..but after that too , when i was sad, he doesnt come and speak with me too..he just went out with his friends and enjoyed..now he is telling u too go out .....he only tols me not to speak with guys,but now he is telling like dis..he is always used to change his mind..he wont ever considered my feelings,wont ever understand me,my love....he doesnt remember anything..he is not even considering me as a important..he is not even coming behind me even during fights..i dont know whether he is lovin me...i guess he is not loving me more as i did and he is not a brave guy to do anything for me...he is not thinking me a worth....since after that too now i speaked with him..but as of now too he doesnt understand anything..he is repeating the same..he went to bang before 2 months to work...but till now he didnt even come to see me...i am missing him a lot ..but he doesnt...i am showing my love lot even during fights even if he did mistake..but he doesnt..he wont speak with me in love at anytime..i was noting each and every date he used to be with me and i loved him...but he doesnt..he never missed me....he never come to see me in this 2 months..he is telling that him mom told to come to his home,and his mom told to be in room , maama will come like dis simply..even now he is not doing anything bravily for me...but he used to go out with his team mates even if i dont like....he never dedicate a song for me..he never send a poem for me...i am not expecting him to write..atleast he can send others poem..is the way which i thinking was wrong?that is love right??expressing our feelings,telling our love in small things,making them happy,thinking them as important,doing them anything..dis is love am i right???.....every girl expects a guy who will anything for her and considering her as important...but he is not even changing his character for me....did i need to be with him after these many things??i cant make my parents to cry for this love....is he worth??is he loving me?i cant able to live without him..i cant marry anyone..bec my heart is full of him..but his always changing..he doent do anything bravely for me..i was thinking whether this will create a problem in future for my life if i marry him...i dono whether he is loving me..since he didnt do anything for me till now,didnt even think me as important,didnt even give some respect to me and for our love...he doesnt show me any love
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jun, 2013 12:48 pm
How old are you?
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Ragman
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jun, 2013 01:28 pm
@revathilogan,
I can't read this crap. Id iz too stoopid to bee bleefed.
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advisor-kpr
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jun, 2013 01:38 pm
@revathilogan,
Dear Revathi,

I feel very sad for the present situation you are in. Dear, please remember few points when you start liking a guy -

1. Most of the boys in the world look for opportunity to have some good time (you understand what this is) with majority woman.
2. I hope that you had not gone to an extent of being Physical with this guy.

My sincere advise to you - Please do not talk to him any more. He is just your friend/bf and nothing more. He is not your husband that you keep worrying about him that much !

Start living your life normally, concentrate on something worthy like studies, job etc., and I am sure you will surely come out of this.

Marry soon a wonderful guy whom your parents choose and start leading a happy life.

Trust me...you will be very happy in future. I know now, it is hard...but believe.
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dalehileman
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jun, 2013 01:45 pm
@revathilogan,
Forgive, Rev, but suggest condensation and paragraphing
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 18 Jun, 2013 06:29 pm
@revathilogan,
He is not loving you. What more do you want to know?

You must give this boy up. He is not ready for woman.
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