I lied almost everything to my boyfriend! Help

Reply Tue 21 May, 2013 03:31 am
Please don't comment negative. I know I'm wrong okay?
Well, I lied to my boyfriend about my personality.
My age, nationality, etc. I met him online. We've been dating for 2 years. We're both Asian.
He is Chinese mixed thai and I'm a filipino. I told him I am half korean & filipino.
& I also told him I'm turning 18 this coming september. (I'm actually 15 and my birthdate is on May) & now he's turning 20 this coming June/July (i forgot) I lied about my location, I said I live in Korea then moved to HK (well, I really moved to HK from Philippines and I'm currently studying in HK), & I even edit my photos to show him cuz I think he might really like me.

Is this a really big lie? I don't want him to leave me and I don't want to break up with him either. What should I do? Please help me. I really, really really love him & so he really does as well. I'm really scared. Pleaseeee I'm not ready yet to tell him the truth. He has a job and I don't want to ruin his days.
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Reply Tue 21 May, 2013 04:27 am
I don't think you can avoid a negative comment and I'm not sure what kind of options we might suggest if you have already ruled out breaking up with him or telling him the truth.
If you have any integrity (and there's no sign that you do) you would just end this now. If your relationship continues he's going to find out the truth one day anyway. Yes it's a really big lie - of course it is! Have you sent him intimate photos of yourself ? If you have, depending on where he lives, you may already have already put him at risk of being charged with possessing child pornography. There are worse ways to ruin his day than by breaking up with him. Do the poor guy a favour.
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Reply Tue 21 May, 2013 04:58 am
In 2 years you have never met each other from what you are saying, both love each other?

Tell us about your plans to meet, and why you haven't in 2 years.

How do you know he is not stating he is who he is? When he really could be someone else himself.

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