I have been dating this man who lost his wife 2 years ago for four months and we do not see each other on weekends and only at night for a couple of hours maybe twice a week. sex is great but we do not go out anymore and this has been going on for a month now. Is he using me?
Yes. sorry to say that. However, the thing is you have the control. You need to tell him you want a full relationship...if that's what you really want. If that's not what you want, then you're using each other.
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PUNKEY
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Wed 15 May, 2013 07:16 pm
Why don't you ask HIM?
You are intimate with him, yet he keeps you at a distance.
Are there kids? former in-laws? group of friends that he does not want to show you to? another woman he sees on the weekends? ashamed to start up another relationship?
This is bizaare. Stop being his bedding person. Yes, he is using you!!!
PS - 2 years is really not enough time for grieving. I suspect he is using you for sex and that's all he can give you at this time.
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FOUND SOUL
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Thu 16 May, 2013 05:59 pm
@mel08,
I have to ask, in the whole time you have never seen him on weekends, and only 4hrs a week, where? At your place or his?
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