Playing???

Her nods and smiles don't amount to a hill o' beans. She is dating someone else. Until that ends, don't ask her out.

thanks for the advice.. anyway to test her intentions here!

Sounds like Jim and Pam from the office.

So she's single now right? That was kinda unclear.

Sounds like she's on the fence about whether she likes you or not. Either way Just keep pursuing her, and you'll win her over. Sometimes love takes time to grow, but I can definitely see her liking you if you keep pursuing her. You should step up your game, and start to do charming things for her. Sending her unexpected flowers and gifts, etc.

You only know one thing for sure: she is in a committed relationship.

Until she ends that and turns to you, she is just pulling your string for attention and some distraction. You are so convenient and "safe" to flirt with.

Stop looking at this relationship for anything other than flirty friends. She is not free and is playing with your head.

Start dating others ASAP. If she wants you, she will let you know, believe me. But she must be FREE to do that.

Would you suggest verbally confronting her, ask her through suttle questions/signs or just go ahead with dating other friends and simply move on....

YOU don't need to say anything.

Date others; you don't need any explanation to her. If she asks, you might tell her that you are looking for a girl who wants a full relationship.

You can still be cordial with this gal, but romance is out of the question.

She's not showing interest in you. When you ask her out she's trying to let you down easy without coming out and and just saying no. Seems she's got the age old problem of being afraid of hurting your feelings. It's not you in particular, she doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

She's not leading you one, she's not flirting, she's not wanting to go out with you.

Stop pestering her with asking her out.

Well -she still wears the promise ring. Bluntly speaking -Here is the list of things she did for me till now - got me a wallet as a present for my birthday which happened some months back, and sometimes pays for the coffee which we pay alternatively. While chatting with her over msn in office a few days I had expressed that I would be going to the church for Good fridays prayers. She told me then it was not possible for her to go to any church as some relative of hers had died. Dilemma:- a day before Friday she states over msn that she got a leave for it , stated that the group of friends with whom I would be going had informed her that timings had changed for prayers ( we are all common friends) had informed and asked me to confirm a leave on that day as going out in evening was out of the question for her. Helped me out with the excuse to get the leave as well for Friday and somehow I got half day for Friday. Come friday , I arrived on time and my friends trickled in few at a time. Called up to find out where she was and she asked me to wait near the gates when I tested her and informed her I will get in, she answered in the negative and told me to wait for her. I escorted her when she arrived at the nick of time with a friend who was with me. Inside she made it a point to sit next to me, praying we chatted, complimenting each other, I texted her she looked great while inside and she blushed and texted back informing that its a unique way of conveying with a smiley. Prayers continued and we were chanting and singing along praise for the lord. She made it a point to gently nudge me with her shoulders, I reciprocated. She had her friends as well on the top floor of the church and I guess they were texting as well, peeped to see 7 messages. She cried in middle where we all have tears our eyes when a clipping was played of the Lord. I noticed a bit late and asked her to be strong. She kept on crying. Tried to wipe her tears from her eyes while asking her to be strong, she grabbed my hand with both her hands and I guess it was for a few secs. Offered her some water and yes comforted her with words. While leaving the seats we met her friends and her bext lady friend. We just exchanged Hi's. While leaving her friend asked me to take care of her. It just came out. I told her I always will. We had a photoshoot with all of our friends and post that bought a few momentoes from the Church. I got her a cross keychain and also a cross sign with some good moral lines. Slipped in both in her bag hoping she did not notice - Oh but she did. She did not get anything else. Post coming out she stated tha she had to leave early as she had to reach and complete some work within an hours time. We were hungry as it was that time, we collectively asked her to just get a bite as everyone was hungry. She caved in and we went hurriedly looking for a nearby restraurant. While on the way there she touched my shoulder a few times and I played with her hair a bit. Inside the restraurant we had food and lots of snaps were taken. In one of them I took a chance and asked one of them to take a snap of both of us and while she swayed her head towards my chair, I did the same and literally bumped my head into her's. She looked confused but regained composure and the snap happened. We left within an hours time and I offered to drop her to her place. Reluctant intially she obliged and on the way she talked non stop about the various shops and how she dreamed of buying the clothes present there and other shops which came up. She was touching me on every occasion possible on my shoulder and hands. Tried to remain calm as much as possible but I was reciprocating too. Tested her by stating she gave me such a great wallet, she told me I had also given her a key chain which was my intial gift (when I had asked her to accompany me to a nearby shop near office in between work and randomly bought that with her name as intials) - had forgotten to mention that earlier. Upon reaching her place she told she had to leave fast as it was near to six. I thought a hug would be good here, but she offered her handshake- which was quite a long one. Left her and texted her that I was looking fwd to the next appointment with her. Response............... "hahaha " . Texted/called her a day later with no response and was informed by a common friend who was part of the evening dinner that she would be out for the next week when we were discussing last days events. He casually also told me that her BF is superrich and yes they may not keep in touch with each other at all. Is she playing really well as an actress or am I the joker in this game and not reading her correctly. Move on or stay???? Thanks guys in advance...

She's still not interested in dating you. Move on.

I'm sorry, but you are reading MORE into this than is there.

Since when is simple touching and small gift giving and going out with groups an indication that she wants any more than THAT? She refuses time-alone with you to show just how she feels. Her friend's comment is general, not specific enough to mean anything.

Where does she go when she disappears for days? Something is very mysterious, here.

You are smitten with her and she is innocently flirting with you.
Please try to get a accurate vision of this or you are going to get HURT badly.

I love this.

You bonked her head, she looked "confused" but regained composure.


boy, are you reading a lot into every she makes.

Thanks a lot!! I have moved on ahead