I've been married for almost one year.
Here's my opinion.
1. Extremely beautiful.
Not imortant. They shouls be pretty, but if yu love them you will be attracted to them.
2. A perfect physique.
Definitely a plus. I find it hard to say that's not at least a little important to me.
3. Nature.
Personality (if I may interchange the terms) is most important. You have to get along, of course.
4. Understanding.
This comes naturally with time, and is important, but incidental.
5. Adjustability.
Eh.
6. Adaptability.
Isn't that the same as #5? Anyway, not something I ever considered.
7. Of Same Religion/Faith.
In my opinion important. But I can see how it wouldn't be for a lot of people.
8. Ambitious.
Not important. Hobbies are good; desires, and goals are good... but ambitious is not necessary.
9. A Beautiful Smile.
A nice plus, but not important. Normally if you're in love with some one you start to like their smile better. Another incidental quality.
10. Glamorous.
Not at all important. In fact, to me it can be a turn-off.
11. Well Educated
It's nice if you're on the same level of wit and knowledge, but plenty of relationships work very well without that aspect.
It's nice if you get along with their parents.