Does she want to be in a relationship with me?

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We've been dating each other since 2 weeks ago and we became a couple this Thursday. I fell in love with her at the first sight and we had very good time in every single dating we had. I've met her family members and I had good time with them as well. However, this makes me so mad that she told me yesterday that her mom asked her to ask me in her family travel plan( Only her mom & my gf) this June. But she told me that she didn't say yes because she doesn't know if we would be still together until that far. I don't understand what's the purpose of she said that. She turns into 19 soon and she had 6 boyfriends in the past... (But she said most of relationship wasn't serious since she was still high school) And I'm 3 years older than her.

So does she think that I'm her short-term boyfriend? I'm so confused now

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@aaron1318,

Maybe she just wants to spend family vacation time with her family. Two weeks is a very short time to begin planning future vacations, or renting a house together or any thing that smacks of permanence. Why are you rattled about a 19 year olds desire to go on a family vacation? Maybe it's the last time the entire family will be able to go as a family. I'm a little concerned why you think this is a rejection of you.....you should try to relax and think long term.

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Her mistake was in telling you about this whole scenario. I wonder why she even mentioned it to you.

Did she need reassurance that you would still be around? Is she doubtful of the relationship?

Dont bring it up again. Maybe she will ask you again, maybe not. In any case, it's OK if she goes with her family by herself.

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@aaron1318,

I think she's being practical (after all, it is a few months away, and things could change in the meantime). Plus, she may be trying to assure that you don't start having an expectation.

And you shouldn't. I am not saying to be insecure but, honestly, you are not that far along. Give things a little time, and don't take it for granted that you will be together then.

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@aaron1318,

All you can really do is give this relationship the best shot you have. Don't keep thinking about small comments, they will just screw you in the end. Just give the relationship the best you've got, don't sabotage it yourself.

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