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Fri 22 Feb, 2013 09:38 am
My boyfriend of over a year has been acting funny for a month now. We have had our share of issues this whole year but I will just touch on this. I recently moved 30 minutes away from him and he's been acting out in strange ways. I used to live 10 minutes from him. He has never told me he loves me and we hardly go out. He goes out a lot with his brother or friends. Last weekend he only saw me one day and I caught him in a huge lie last weekend and this was our biggest fight yet. He works 3 hours away and only comes home on the weekends. This last Friday he got in at 9:20 pm and said he had a long ride and was just pulling to his driveway. The ticket of a casino I found 2 days later on his kitchen table was dated 2/15 which was that Friday he got in and the time on the ticket was 8;03 pm. I called him on it and he denied it. His name was on it since he's an avid player of black jack. So he tells me this coming weekend he will be hanging out with his friends the whole weekend and that's what he's going to do. I have a feeling he's either seeing someone else or wanting me to be gone. My mother and friends say to not take his calls when he comes in tonight. What do you all think? No contact and also do you think he's seeing someone else?
@Sassylion,
Also the ticket I found on the table I didn't search for we were talking and I looked down and there it was, almost like a sign!
Yeah, I think he's just not that into you. It's certainly not the behaviour of a guy who's interested in having a relationship. I'd drop him like a hot potato and move on.
@Mame,
Thanks Mame. I think your right. I have nearly made myself sick over this relationship. Then he tells me he will be with his friends the whole weekend. It just hurts especially the intuition I feel and the true wake up call his words send me.