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He said, "I want to get you pregnant." What does this mean?

 
 
ehBeth
 
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Reply Thu 1 Jun, 2017 02:44 pm
@Pbe,
Pbe wrote:
Yes, I see the red flags that if I don't want to end up pregnant - I'd need to stop having sex with him or supply my own condoms, because I think in his case he just really wants a baby and it doesn't matter with whom. Your thoughts?


birth control plus your own condom supply

what any smart woman having sex is sure of

birth control plus disease control
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Thu 1 Jun, 2017 02:46 pm
@Pbe,
Pbe wrote:
because I know that having a kid still ties you to someone in some capacity.


nope

I know way too many people who have no relationship (good or bad) with the person they had a child with. Getting a cheque from a government agency that disperses child support is not a relationship/tie.
Pbe
 
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Reply Thu 1 Jun, 2017 05:53 pm
@jespah,
I just cut all ties with him. I know it would become a constant level of tension dealing with him. I don't see long-term compatibility with him being that he has issues with communication and common sense in some regard. He doesn't want me to date anyone else, but he and I have not validated anything more than just dating, so he had no place to even go there.
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Fri 2 Jun, 2017 11:51 pm
@ehBeth,
Quote:
I know way too many people who have no relationship (good or bad) with the person they had a child with. Getting a cheque from a government agency that disperses child support is not a relationship/tie.


Bullshit! Kids deserve two parents. And, let's be honest here, it is the father that is almost always seen not as a parent, but as a "cheque from a government agency".

If you are a responsible mother, then you will work with the father for the sake of your child. It is ridiculous that for all the talk about equality, fathers are still not considered equal parents.

Breaking up before you create a child together is a perfectly reasonable thing to do.


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kellydennis
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 01:15 pm
@PowerWidow,
I would kindly advice you to have a child.. if your heart tells you too
glitterbag
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 01:28 pm
@kellydennis,
Awwwww. That's sweet, how many children do you support?
kellydennis
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2017 03:06 am
@glitterbag,
u are right
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kellydennis
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2017 03:08 am
@ehBeth,
u are so right there..are u a nurse ?
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kellydennis
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2017 03:10 am
@glitterbag,
Hmmm Maybe 2 i guess ahahahahaha @ glitterbag. are you a Nurse?... Your name sound so familian
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kellydennis
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2017 03:24 am
@glitterbag,
/???????????///
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centrox
 
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Reply Sun 4 Jun, 2017 03:52 am
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
Things said in the heat of the moment are expressing a passionate emotion, not a 5 year plan.

Women have told me that men blurt out all kinds of stuff when they are in the throes of passion. I know I have. "I want to get you pregnant" is interesting rather than creepy, I would have thought, especially since he knows pregnancy is unlikely. Women say odd things too. Best to discuss this with him.

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Shnhrnnn
 
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Reply Sat 17 Jun, 2017 09:23 am
@PowerWidow,
He want a sex with you
centrox
 
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Reply Sat 17 Jun, 2017 09:25 am
@Shnhrnnn,
Shnhrnnn wrote:
He want a sex with you

No ****, Sherlock?




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