@igm,
What and where is "self"?
I ask how does one loose thy self?
Know thy self.
Do you really think that the "dash" between the two dates on your tomb stone makes up all that you are? Just because your memories die doesn't mean your experiences are gone. Ones "self", once created, can never be destroyed. The "self" is infinite. There's not enough words created for my explanation. Just because I can't show you what I see, doesn't mean that I don't see what I'm trying to say. For you to take me at my word would be to much to ask for.
Understanding comes from within when truth is without. To know your "self" is to understand the "without" from"within".
Just because you don't understand doesn't mean there is no "self".
There are people with questions and people with answers. There are people who know and people who think they know. If you find your "self", you'll loose yourself. If you loose your "self", you'll find yourself.
Are you lost? Do you know your "self"? Who have you been? Who have you become? Only few, If any, will understand. Remember the KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid).
All that idolize the supposible "geniouses" need to find "self" and know what it means to be humble. To be humble not on my means that you're no better than others, but also means that others are no better than you. We are ALL equal, so start acting like it. Know for your self. If lost, then look. You'll find what yo u seek.