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Tue 5 Feb, 2013 11:34 am
hi there my partner of 8 years as started going to the gym and going on sunbeds. he as gone from calling me 3 times a day while at work to 1. he as become very distant. everytime i try to discuss it he says im inscure. he as always controlled me were i dont go out socalizing without him. and all that as stopped to. my head is spinning and i just dont understand it. are sex life as become staile. any body got any ideas.
@birch12,
It's kinda nice to not have somebody trying to control your life, yanno.
Has he found someone else to control? Perhaps. Is he trying to make you jealous? Maybe. Is he worth getting jealous over? Probably not.
@jespah,
i have looked at every little thing to see if there is someon else. but found notjing. dont know what else to do
Then don't do anything!
Perhaps he is so confident of your relationship that he does not have to call you 3 times a day.
Unless you see evidence, then don't assume he is cheating.
Of course, you could always ask, "Hey, what's up? I notice that you haven't been calling me like you did before and you are not as affectionate as you used to be. What's up?"