@coolwady,
Cool I'd help you if I could beyond suggesting that things get better
A2k has attracted many score if not hundreds of similar OP's suggesting either (a) problems of the sort you describe are more common outside the Western Hemisphere (b) we think so because we're more constrained, or, as some participants suggest, (c) they're bot
While I sincerely hope someone more nearly expert in such matters will prove helpful, I am wondering what attracted you specifically to a2k instead of some other forum of more nearly appropriate mission
And if it's no secret maybe it would help us understand your plight if we knew more about you--that is, without revealing anything critical to your ID--such as age, nationality, religion, ambition, family, etc