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Thu 31 Jan, 2013 09:00 am
I am already married & have a kid of 10 yrs now . 7 yrs back I happened to meet an young man 6 yrs younger to me . We shared similar interests & bonded very well . Days passed, months & years passed & our friendship bloomed . Hours was like seconds when we were together . after 2 yrs he moved out of the city & we realised how much we loved each other . We were in touch & had all kind of relationship. We did try to cut off our friendship but somehow we were not able to . We have already got used to each other's company that however we try we are not able to get separated . Please give suggestion for us to get separated .
We need to separate for the purpose of our families , I mean my Husband & his wife . No one know about our affair & we do not want to separate from our respective partners & kids. Please help.
@NancyRamya,
Try spending all that emotional capital on your husband instead of your lover would be my suggestion.
Break the addiction to the excitement IF you really want to.
It's not going to work if you REALLY don't want to break if off :
block all texts, phone calls, messages, etc.
don't listen to music that reminds you of him.
keep busy
turn back to your husband and tell him you want to fall in love with him again - and he better pay attention to that need.
Good luck. I know how you feel. But it CAN be done.