Bad Sex

Then you've been having sex with the wrong guys. Find someone and develop a loving relationship prior to having sex. When two people are totally comfortable with each other, then talking about what helps to get each other off becomes a bit more natural and both parties are more apt to care about making sure their partner is satisfied. Jumping into the sack with someone after a couple dates does not tend to allow time to develop a level of comfortability for either of you. (Not saying that is the case with you since you did not give us any info on how quickly you move to a sexual relationship with your guys.)

Of course, I would be remiss if I did not point out that waiting until you are married would be best and allow both of you to be comfortable talking to each other about sex. But as I am sure you will see, I am in the minority on that opinion around here and many others will disagree.

Perhaps you need an older lover - someone who will LISTEN to you.

You seem to have a high sex drive, so you'd better find someone who can keep up with you - and that includes listening to how and what you want.

Just the fact that you said you can't get the hang of normal sex could be a part of it. Normal sex, I believe , is what makes you and your partner please each other. You probably haven't figured out what you truly like yet. Try different things with him because they turn you on(not cause they should!!)and somewhere somehow you'll surely find what's for you.

I can help you....but I'm pricey

BTW - what is "normal" sex?

Lol well I'm out of work right now so that's not going to work for me

Well to be completely honest with you I whole heatedly agree but like you said we're in the minority

I guess I should have said basic sex.