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Possible to get ex back?

 
 
bjjstar
 
Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2013 01:22 am
Hi, I'm trying to get my ex girlfriend back and here's the story.

So me and her went out for 4 months until I said something stupid and broke up with her. But later I realized my mistake and asked to be with her again. I guess after that broke up, she felt really hurt and cannot be in a relationship with me anymore. But after giving her hugs and kisses, we got back together and things were going pretty well again. Until I had to move back to my own country and we stopped talking for a while.

I know in the meantime she has gotten another boyfriend but recently broke up with him. Now that I'm back to where she is, I really want to get back with her. Recently, I asked her out a few times and the interaction we well. But I'm sure she only looks at me as a friend right now. I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to get her attracted again? Please give me some advice.
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jespah
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2013 08:37 am
@bjjstar,
Write her a letter. A real, honest to goodness letter. You know, the kind where you buy a nice card, or stationery, and you pay for postage. THAT kind.

And reiterate that you're sorry again for your previous poor behavior and you hope all is going well with her, and that you care about her. And you hope that the two of you can get back what you once had but you are willing to wait. Mean it, sign it and send it. Do not follow up for at least a week if you have not heard from her first (yeah, you've got to be PATIENT if you're gonna do this).

And see what happens, but don't be shocked if this girl is done with you, as she may simply wish to move on.
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carlycrazee
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2013 01:43 pm
@bjjstar,
Life is forward, if things are so bad that someone wants to terminate a relationship there are good reasons to let the relationship die.
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The sempstress
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2013 05:35 pm
@bjjstar,
I think you should forget about it now it wasn't meant to be
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