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Sat 5 Jan, 2013 11:34 pm
She told me she is jus hard to fall in luv, n still treat me as a frien after I propose to her the 2nd time, seriously I do not know why. She give me all sort of hint, we went picnic, hangout together, feed me food, send me caring text, slp on my shoulder, etc... I mean all this thing she did, will a girl do that do a normal guy friend? Btw I really like her, n really don't wanna giv up on her jus yet! I'm nt sure whether is it bcus her past relationship did nt g well or wat? So wat do u gals think?? I really nid ur help THX!!!! Should I giv it a 3rd n last try?
When you say "propose to her" do you mean you proposed marriage twice? If so, you're really getting ahead of yourself if all you've done together is go on a picnic or two or exchanged a few texts. That's something you consider after a lot more time spent together, not just a month or two, which is what your relationship, such as it is, sounds like.
@dude ster,
I'm gonna guess that by propose you mean ask out on a date.
What I think is ... ask her.
"Where is this going? How do you feel about me? I don't want to just be friends. if that's what you want, then it's going to be difficult for me to be around you."
Don't talk about love. Sheesh! A girl smiles and says three words to a guy and suddenly he's declaring love. It's absurd and it's too fast. But if you've been on a couple of dates, you're entitled to know if it's worth your while to plan and ask for a third date.