@wandeljw,
What I do not understand, (though I comprehend it), is why these people do not simply enjoy their own affirmed belief in their devotion and maybe tattoo names in a common law ceremony, performed by wicker type 'maypole' ceremonial procedures.
'Tie the ribbon' kind of deals. With rings obviously, that's not our right to deny.
We can all fairly well explain the situation, without dragging it through religion.
Bring religion into it, all people see is sodomy and sex... Leave it be, it could be love..
Devil/God.. Satan.. Dante... Yeah.. You get it?