helpp

so i went to the doctor and they think i have a bladder infection. so lets hope its really that cause im still not ready to tell anyone ive had sex. i didnt get checked for any stds but they did do a pregnacy test since they had my pee and it came back negative hopefully a bladder infection is all it is.

Pleased to hear it.

Stay safe.

Good. And are you going to use condoms now, every time?

yes, if he brings them. and im going on the pill soon which i decided to do even before all this happened but yeah. and most definitely learned to go pee after having sex.

what?
go pee after sex?

Tell us about that.
Maybe I could learn, I've never had a UTI.

You can buy your own condoms, yanno.

What I am saying is, take responsibility. Wanna use his? That's fine. But have your own. Don't let him sweet-talk you into sex if he doesn't have a condom with him.

well i go to the doctor and they tell me i was starting to get a bladder infection then i come home and one of my sisters come over i tell her i know whats been wrong with me and she said 'ohhh you know what thats from not peeing after having sex' (i have never mentioned to them that ive had sex.) and so then it comes clear to me... im on medication for it now and ive been feeling a lot better(:

he doesnt sweet talk me, he never does anything i dont want to

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urinary_tract_infection

Yes, pee after sex.

yessss. cause i didnt for hours after. and since it was my first time and got stretched out it burnedddddd... not fun

It's way to early for morning sickness. I do have to wonder about two options:

A: Might you be allergic to precum? (contrary to previous posters precum has been shown not to have sperm in it)

B: Did he give you the flu?

C It's probally your nerves.

I just looked this up on WebMD: http://blogs.webmd.com/womens-health/2010/01/urban-or-suburban-legends-about-sex.html

They say that you are correct. However (and this is a very big however), if a man has begun to ejaculate, then sperm can be present.

Hence, you're right; precum is fine when it comes to pregnancy - but not HIV risk, see: http://www.thebody.com/content/2308/frequently-asked-questions-about-hivaids.html and there is a pregnancy risk if ejaculation has begun.

Again, use of a condom will help with preventing both pregnancy and HIV, plus insisting on the use of a condom could be good for this new-to-sex woman's assertiveness issues with sex.