Sat 29 Dec, 2012 07:03 pm
At the start of my relationship i fell hard for my girlfriend, I had been attracted to her for years before we started dating. We became best friends, but after dating for a year, i'm no longer attracted to her. I do still think she is attractive, though I find myself making excuses not to make love, and even kiss her. We spend every single day with eachother, and I have no time to myself, maybe this could be a reason for it all. And any time i suggest we spend a day to ourselves, or suggest going out drinking with friends she makes such a big deal of it and in the end it's not even worth suggesting it anymore. I actually feel trapped, I don't know what i should do.
Break it off.
Life is too short to be unhappy.
Also, realize that when you do, that will give her a chance to heal and find someone who can appreciate her.
Or you can try to honestly explain to her how you feel and that you just need more time alone.
Tell her what you have told us!!! You need to breathe!
This will only get worse in the future. Stop feeding her insecurities and need to control.