What Should I do? Is he into me?

Hi Everyone,

I recently, met a guy in a penpal site.
We became penpals, and soon after in the week itself we exchange numbers and began sending messages using our phones.

He is from the North side of Asia, and I live the South side of Asia
And I going to his country in 2 weeks time.

When he knew that I was going to his country, he initiate to meet up.
He said I was attractive, and he really wants to meet me.

But I somehow, feel insecure, because I don't feel he is genuine.
As he doesn't know me that well, and also I find our friendship is going way to fast.

He likes to flirt a lot in most of his text messages,

He text, that I'm in his mind at a certain moment.

He also text, and asked me to have coffee with him at that moment, even though we are thousands of miles away. And also asked me to cook him dinner, when he is tired.

When I ask him what is his favourite food, he answered , 'anything that you cook for me'

Recently, I cheer him up. And he said, he have no choice to like me more.

He is so straight forward, I really don't know if his feelings are for real or not?

One thing that irritates me is that, the person that usually initiate the text messages is me. He claims he is busy with work, and I understand that because he is a military officer. And he work late every single time.

He told me, he last relationship didn't work out because his ex. Doesn't understand that he is busy.

So can I really trust him on that?

He wants to bring me out for a short road trip around his town area.
But I'm a little bit afraid. To have a short road trip for my first date with him. Hmmm...

What should I do?? Is he into me? Is he genuine?