Quick advice needed with Ex!

Okai me and my ex broke up wedesday as she was confused on what she wanted and has been very stressed lately.
She wanted time away from me i said no better off jsut breaking up.

There was no arguments or anything just few tears just was so confused this happened.

On fri she messages me asking me if i want my things back and if im okay i reply "yes im great thx for letting me no but you can bin them if you want"

Lastnight however she has 2 boys at her house in a frindly take away i blocked her on faceboo but my mate pointed this out there extremely unattractive so actually didnt face me to be honest.

Anyway earlier today my mate was messaging her saying if "me" knows that ur having boys over so soon hes gunna think something was goin on eg.

My mate has been messaging my ex all day pretty much putting in good words for me and that shes gunna regret it if she loses me which ino she would ive done a hell of a lot for her.

Then she txts me this afternoon asking if im okaii i didnt make to much of a reply.

She then told my mate She might come see me tonight and see if im okay my mate said na its too soon your better off sein him in the week which was good idea.

My ex however was messaging me saying how i made out that i didnt seme bothered about the break up as i did just never showed it as all this wer her choice so i tried to be strong!.

Because my mate kept putting in her head that shell lose me to sumone else and shell regret it becuase we wer actually prefect together 3 months nothing wrong just her own issues which took its tole on her!.

She was saying she wants to come over here tonight to me i told her na you go out enjoy urself and if youve got a free day next week well meet up , she agreed to it but didnt no ive booked us cinema tickets and a nice day out.

She said why are you so nice to me? think she thinks because i do so much for her she feels guilty.

My question have i played this right , hour after letting her no we started flirting eg as you do lol ,

I would have her back straight away i just dont wanna make out thats all i told her i want her to be happy.

So what would you advise to talk about on that day im gunna take her for a meal stright after the cinema also so can speak then!.

I dont wanna seem to intrested to the point where she thinks i need her shes told me she cant wait to see me.

Its all confusing because she also said she doesnt wanna hurt me and that she hurts everyone buy pushing them away and doesnt mean to.


Help on this much appreciated

Btw im 23 shes 22