I am not a Black person, but my soul is "n-word" (substitute the proper word here). My mentality is n-word. My heart is n-word. My way of thinking, perceiving and interpreting events, facts and environment is "n-word". Plus I am Middle Easter. So can I call a Black person "n-word"? If I have a very good black friend, and one day I call him n-word, is it possible that he will be offended and stop being my friend?