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Wed 21 Nov, 2012 08:33 am
when i have sex, it hurts, not like the first time, but i can feel him hitting my cervix, even after just having him in me a little bit, doesnt have to be all the way in, and it hurt, and it kinda makes me feel like i have to pee also. i think i have a shallow vagina
i am in a relationship, i want to be able to not dread sex, does anyone else have this problem, if so how do you deal with it,
@flagrl,
You need to go to a doctor, and find out what can be done. I get the feeling that the opening can be enlarged.
@flagrl,
It happens. If he's hitting your cervix it's going to hurt you. I have had this problem. It doesn't go away but can get better with time.....lots of time for your body to adjust. Fine a guy with a shorter dick and you'll enjoy it more.
@flagrl,
my doctor told me to do plenty of foreplay and relax when we started having sex. And use lube. You'll get used to him in time.
People, people!!!!! It's supposed to be enjoyable, not something you learn to endure. I don't need any more details, my advise is to check with your Dr., hopefully you can discuss this comfortably with your doc, it might not be you, it's possible it's him or missed cues between the two of you.
@flagrl,
Maybe you are not enough wet before the act and this cause you pain. Use a lubricant and if the pain is still there go to visit doctor