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Why would my ex tell me about sex with another girl?

 
 
Reply Sat 17 Nov, 2012 11:19 pm
After 1.5 years, he dumped me out of the blue. Two months later, our close friends are getting engaged and we both are at the party. We end up talking and he asks me if I've slept with anyone else since we broke up.

I was so surprised that I just said "...no, I haven't" (I know, I know, I should have told him that it was none of his business).

He then responds by saying, "I did...and it was terrible."


It feels like he's trying to keep tabs on me, and/or make me jealous, but that doesn't make sense. He was the one who dumped me! Why would he bring this up? Why would he tell me about this other girl? UGH.
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roger
 
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Reply Sun 18 Nov, 2012 01:14 am
@gymturtle,
I have no idea, turtle. I do know that if some people can't be liked, they will be obnoxious just to be noticed. Most of us kick over the other kids' sand castles a few times, and finally outgrow it.

I don't know if that's what's going on here, or if it's something else.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 18 Nov, 2012 02:02 am
@gymturtle,
most likely he was trying to communicate to you that he values you and wants to be your friend, or more. just how was telling you that he had sucky sex with another girl supposed to make you jealous? do you know anyone who wants sucky sex?
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sun 18 Nov, 2012 11:31 am
He's baiting you ---in a very immature and crude way.

Keep him dumped.

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MikeM46
 
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Reply Mon 14 Jan, 2013 12:57 pm
@gymturtle,
He wants you on a string ...don't fall for it.
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cathy22
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2013 07:53 pm
@gymturtle,
he did you a favor when he left., -You don't want that one back.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2013 08:29 pm
I can't give better advice than Cathy. He actually did do you a huge favor. I can't think of anything more telling than your ex trying to swap notes with you. If he ever tells you again that the sex was awful, tell him he must be STILL doing it wrong. Smile sweetly and walk away. It will drive him crazy.
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