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@ehBeth,

He is not happy but open to the thought

@trying2learn,

I'm not clear why you want to move, T2L. Because Obama won? Or other reasons?

I considered moving to Italy a bunch of years ago, for my interests, my enthusiasms, but while I could have then afforded it, teeny tiny barely, and could get the language and expect to learn more, I couldn't afford always going back and forth to the U.S., my home, so it was a no. Perhaps you can.

Do you not now consider the U.S. your home?

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@ossobuco,

I want to move because I don't want to be reminded of my dad, my sister or my mom. I want a new start. I don't know how else to explain it.

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@trying2learn,

Ok, then, you want to refresh. I understand that.

There are some sayings that where ever you move, there you are, and I mostly agree with all that, but I can see moving for fun and adventure as a pickmeup. I can also see it as very dumb.

Me, I think you need to wait and, staying there, look at yourself and things you can do.

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@trying2learn,

I've got a life, and it doesn't include whack jobs who go off their anti-psychotic medication and start loudly indulging paranoid fantasies. If i am a bully, what the hell were you when you started sending me private messages, and continued after i told you i didn't want to receive them?

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@trying2learn,

trying2learn wrote:

I want to move because I don't want to be reminded of my dad, my sister or my mom. I want a new start. I don't know how else to explain it.

well better than this post

trying2learn wrote:

I was informed that most members on this site don't live in the United States and yet I keep reading negative comments. I guess you live in utopia. I would love to move so please comment what the best country to live in ideal.

two days after the election, would have been a good start

the post you opened with seemed like the sort of drivel lunatics post when they're unhappy with an election, not someone who wants to change their environment to move on from their grief

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@Setanta,

Setanta wrote:

I've got a life, and it doesn't include whack jobs who go off their anti-psychotic medication and start loudly indulging paranoid fantasies. If i am a bully, what the hell were you when you started sending me private messages, and continued after i told you i didn't want to receive them?

Call her another name, Set! Come on, she's down on the ground, and feeling depressed -- give her a good kick! You know you'll feel better!

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@djjd62,

djjd62 wrote:

such a clear concise post

it would appear she responded to 3 people

set = ass
FBM = Funeral
Tsar = all the rest

we need an A2K Rosetta stone to decipher some of this stuff

a courier delivering medication to the west coast might help

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@trying2learn,

trying2learn wrote:

He is not happy but open to the thought

you should be discussing all of this with your husband and your counsellor/s, not random strangers

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@ehBeth,

And certainly not strangers who bully and insult you. Ignore them.

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@Setanta,

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If i am a bully, what the hell were you when you started sending me private messages, and continued after i told you i didn't want to receive them?

What do you mean 'if', Set? Just this thread illustrates that you are.

You often talk of how you can just scroll past whatever you don't want to view but now you're whining about PMs that you could have easily deleted or simply ignored.

Drama queen, much?

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@djjd62,

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seemed like the sort of drivel lunatics post

Like the drivel you post, dj?

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@Ticomaya,

Well said, Tico. Very well said!

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@ehBeth,

Is this a Setanta sock puppet?

How did you two find each other, Beth?

Who do you consider the real pathfinder in your household?

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@ehBeth,

Quote:

a courier delivering medication to the west coast might help

Quote:

you should be discussing all of this with your husband and your counsellor/s, not random strangers

I'll bet that you always wanted to be a psychiatrist, Beth.

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@JTT,

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PMs that you could have easily deleted

the only way to delete a PM is to move it off the 3 pages of your inbox -- 25 "folders" per page.
so if i send you a PM right now, you would need to send or recieve PM's from 75 different A2k'ers (creating 75 folders after mine) in order to delete it.
however, if i send you another PM before that happens, it will move right back to the top of the first page of your inbox...

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@JTT,

i make no pretense to be a reasonable or rational being

to quote a wise man

i yam what i yam

now please pass the spinach

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@Ticomaya,

Piss off, you snide son of a bitch. If she doesn't want people to call her names, maybe she should think about not calling them names.

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@Region Philbis,

Proving that there is something to be learned from every thread, if only we wait long enough.

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@trying2learn,

t2l.

Moving is not the entire solution. Your husband, has a secure job, friends, a career by moving you are up-rooting all that he has worked for.

Moving, away from memories is not possible, you are "running away" from them but they will still be there.

You need to bury the past and get into the present, start hobbies and make new friends.. People die all around us, all the time.. Sometimes they all come from one family, in different circumstances but we move on or else, we stay in the same spot.

Your husband needs you right? He has been living in the same "spot" with you, you have him and it's selfish not to get out of this bubble, I thought you would be stronger than that, fight for it, you have him.

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