@laurenxo88,
Alright, so you love him, and he's angry at you, and you want to make it better, right?
But have you done anything wrong? Is it wrong to be cautious - given your past experience? Shouldn't he be able to understand that, and have empathy for you?
Do you feel he's being pushy? Are you comfortable with that? Does he respect the discomfort he's causing you by being pushy?
Is it all about him? Is it all about you? Should there somehow be a balance, and a stand on what respect entails?
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Can you make this better by (effectively) saying
'alright, you can push me around, bully me, disrespect my feelings and not even bother trying to put yourself in my shoes'?
...is it possible, do you think?
...now, if you stood up for yourself - his reply could be something like 'damn, aren't you self centred - you aren't considering my feelings, you aren't considering the embarassment and hurt you are causing me, and you have the hide to say 'it's all about me'.... Would that be true?
The truth of the matter is that both should respect the other, and have empathy for their individual needs...
....and when 'emotional needs' conflict, you need to be considerate & respectful of the others emotional needs, while doing what is good for your emotional health - ie. if you don't respect yourself, no one else will (him included). See - giving in is basically saying 'your emotions are more important than mine / you deserve more respect than me'....this sort of thing really screws with your mind. I'd advise only doing so in extreme situations (which isn't the case in your scenario) with a longer term view where you discuss what went wrong, and your side of the story. Parent/Child type relationships are of course, a different matter.
Or in another way - when no one else is looking after your happiness / self-respect etc...then the only person left to look after them is you.
Always show respect your needs. Always understand & respect others needs as best you can.
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Personally, from what you've said, your boyfriend may need to grow up a bit...but still try to understand where he's coming from, while standing firm on what you need at this moment.