Herpes or Coxsackie?

Two weekends ago I went to visit my boyfriend. During this visit we engaged in a lot of rough sex which resulted in a minor rip in my perineum. I didn't think much of it until Wednesday when it started to make peeing difficult and painful. On Wednesday I also began to get a mouth ulcer and a sore throat, again, I didn't think much of it. On Friday I started noticing bumps around my anus and by Sunday I had a full on rash around my anus and a mouth full of unbearably painful ulcers. I did my research and began to get worried it was herpes. I called my boyfriend and he was shocked because he had never shown symptoms and was terrified he could be the cause of my outbreak. He went to get tested the next day but since he had no out break or symptoms the dr told him there was nothing they could do. I went to urgent care because I was out of town and he took one look at my mouth and anus and said "genital herpes". I was devastated and shocked that even with being so careful I could have gotten herpes from the only sex partner I've ever had, especially when he had been so sure he was std free. I followed up today (2 days since I went to urgent care) with my primary physician since I'm back at home. To my relief she was skeptical of it being herpes due to my sexual history and the fact that I had both oral and genital outbreaks at the same time, although its possible, she said its pretty rare. When doing the swab test/ looking at the sores she questioned if maybe I had coxsackie virus (hand foot mouth) and a lightbulb in my head went off that two of the kids I babysit for had hand foot mouth just weeks earlier. I know that herpes is still a possibility but I was wondering if anyone else has had symptoms like this for coxsackie? I won't get my results back until after the weekend and am keeping my fingers crossed its not herpes. Any advice, insight, hope that even though I'm in my early 20s I may have hand foot mouth and not an std???

Thanks for any help you can provide!!