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Sun 9 Sep, 2012 01:01 pm
i m having a gf from last 10 months,this is my second gf,and i love her from deep into my heart and she also loves me truly.My main problem is that she is very frank to others like cracking adult jokes or something and taking to them in very frank manner.One day i just checked her inbox messages and i found that the conversation between them was not normal for me(like that boy said i want to kiss u and i want to touch your boobs,and i want to lick your pussy and something like that crap and after that my gf had written that after u do it i'll give u tight hug).
Then after that when i talked to her about this she just said baby that it was just a conversation nothing more than that,it's just a normal conversation. after that day m seriously pissed off,frustrated,depressed and dont know what to do.Plz help me about this with some suggestions.Would i still hang with that girl or i should go far away from her....
@mak3535,
Normal conversations are about the weather, or politics, or ambitions or whatnot. People don't generally talk that explicitly about sex unless they want to, or are already doing what they're talking about. Of course there are exceptions but let me ask you this - if a woman was talking to you about such things, would you be stimulated, or would you just take it as if you were talking about the weather? I am getting the strong feeling it would not have the same effect as discussing whether it'll rain.
@jespah,
plz can u be more precise about what u said
@mak3535,
When you are in a relationship and someone talks to you in a sexual manner, you clearly point out that, that is not a topic for discussion, off limits, disrespectful, etc, etc, as "you are in a relationship".....
You need to tell her that.
Give this girl up. You aren't suited. She is a relaxed, lively, fun loving person. You are a miserable uptight dick. Sorry but it's true.
She made a joke about what another person said to her. Big deal.
They were not serious conversations - at least she's telling you that. They seem somewhat immature and provocative. Some might even call it inappropriate.
But . . . the real question is: why are YOU in her mail?
@contrex,
u r right i might be a dick
u have pressed the right nerve of mine
@mak3535,
mak3535 wrote:i might be a dick
That is the first step towards not being a dick. Build on it.
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