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Tue 4 Sep, 2012 11:13 am
Unlike a lot of men, I find, I'm having an issue where I last a little too long in bed and it's very frustrating. What I am noticing is that my penis is very sensitive at the beginning but the longer the sex lasts I get less and less sensitive and by this time my body is already fairly exhausted so that makes it even harder to climax. More often than not I have to take matters into my own hands, which I guess is fine because she likes to watch, but I'd rather climax via acts that she's performing on me, etc. Is there a way to help achieve an easier climax?
Yup.
Don't make it the "goal.'
If it doesn't happen, then forgitaboutit.
You will eventually get your wish.
@PUNKEY,
That's fair enough. There's been numerous times where it just doesn't happen and I'm fine with that, even if it is a little disappointing. My main "goal" every time is my partner's pleasure, and I'm lucky to say that she's very orgasmic and extremely easy to please. She averages at least 4 or 5 orgasms each time. It certainly makes her want to make me reach my goal that much more, but like I said it's not the easiest thing in the world. Don't get me wrong it's happened a few times where I've climaxed at a decent time, so I know it's certainly possible. But it is true that I guess I shouldn't focus too much on it and just let it happen.
Thanks for the advice