I read this exactly on another Forum....
Haven't spoken to her for over a year.
Her main thing was the cats.. She loved her cats to death...
Her children felt sorry for their Mother but also knew she could go to shelters but didn't.
He withheld sex, he treated her like carp and flirted as well with other women that was the key that kept her there... Why? What is wrong with me?
He thought sex was discusting, no matter what anyone said she would not leave but she started saving her money all of a sudden, she started to listen, she was ready to move and go, alas she felt sexy, she wanted to feel sexy, loved, beautiful but she viewed love over dressing sexually and being sexual..
Alot of women abused relate sex to love.. Not so at all, it's the beauty within, when but not many women abused can see that.
I understand love of animals. I understand more so love for yourself, not up yourself, but honest recognition of worth and more so that of your children.
A man can trap you, he's trapped you but he hasn't really.. You are looking at it all the wrong way.
As advised, first speak to family TELL THEM..
You will be amazed at who is there for you, and your FRIENDS, who will help you..
The problem is, is you get isolated and don't think anyone at all will either believe you or understand you and that's the biggest mistake, because they will and from there, once you feel the support you get stronger and work through it.