@layman,
I'll add something anyway. A few months ago some guy I've never liked anyway took to trying to punk me around in front of my homies, my Babe, and everybody.
So, naturally, I hauled out my .45 revolver, cocked the hammer, and stuck it in his sorry face.
I really, I mean, like, REALLY, wanted to bust a cap in his sorry ass, but I hesitated. Everybody was screaming at me not to do it, telling me I would never see the streets again, etc. After about 45 seconds of indecision, I finally just told him to haul his sorry ass out of there and never come back, promising that I would shoot him on sight if he did.
I still haven't convinced myself that I did the right thing, but it's a done deal now, so.....