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Mental Decline & Dependency/Coping With Aging Loved Ones

 
 
JPB
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 07:38 am
So sorry, noddy. It's hard and unfortunately gets harder. I'm thinking of you.
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George
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 07:48 am
I'm following along and wishing you well, Noddy.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 08:09 am
JPB, George--

Thanks for the sympathy. I just called our insurance agent who mentioned that my husband had stopped by yesterday. This means he lied to me about going a half a mile of back roads for coffee and drove 6 miles to a area of moderately heavy traffic.

The lying adds a new dimension of horror to the mess.
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wandeljw
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 08:16 am
I am also reading along, Noddy, because my wife has similar problems with her mother. I hope things get better for you, Noddy.
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Izzie
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 10:04 am
Thinking of you too Noddy - hoping Tuesday was less complicated and that you have managed some "you" time.

Trying times... and ongoing - wishing you well. x
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 10:08 am
Noddy - trying to post something helpful/useful. Can't think of anything that wouldn't involve banging your stepsons' heads together.

Hold your own brocaded dominion.
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Eva
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 10:23 am
I can't think of anything particularly helpful either, Noddy.

The only solution I can think of would involve drugs and duct tape.

My thoughts are with you.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 11:26 am
Thanks all.

I couldn't wake Mr. Noddy up this morning, so I called the ambulance. His blood sugar was very low, but even intravenous glucose didn't bring him round.

As you know his behavior since Friday/Saturday has been disorganized/disoriented and I suspect a larger than usual stroke.

He's safe in the local hospital and I'm trying to find someone to help me revive the car battery he killed yesterday. When life calms down a bit I'm joining AAA.
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George
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 11:48 am
Oh, no. I hope he's OK.

Your stress level must be off the charts.
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Tomkitten
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 11:52 am
Mental Decline
At least you know he's in safe hands, and the car keys problem is off your mind at least for now.

Never forget - we're with you.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:07 pm
Noddy - consider calling AAA now. They may start your membership with the first service call. A lot of similar services do.
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Izzie
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:09 pm
Oh Noddy - how awful you you.... and Mr N.

Yep - we're with you - will wait to hear back from you when you can.

Healing thoughts your way... to both of you

Iz x
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:26 pm
George--

You are perceptive. My Intestinal Poltergeist is outdoing herself. Three cheers for Generic Immodium.

TomKitten--

After I coped, one of my first cheerful thoughts was that I'd have a day without wrangling about Mr. Noddy driving. His keys are now stashed in my sock drawer.

EhBeth--

I'm going to give the Neighbors and Stepsons until late afternoon. Then I just might try AAA.

One of the more reliable stepsons is tied up at work until 8--and I can't drive after dark--but has promised to come up tomorrow morning. Knowing there is relief in sight is soothing.

Izzie--

Thanks for the moral support.

********
I talked to the ER. Mr. Noddy's brain has been scanned and his blood is being analyzed and his Primary Care Physician is being paged--quite possibly to sign admission papers.

When he left the house he was comatose, but the ER Nurse said he was able to talk to her--although mental disorganization is still evident. He realizes he's at the hospital, although he doesn't remember leaving the house.

He's in a safe place.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:40 pm
Safe is good.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:48 pm
<here>
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Izzie
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 12:50 pm
putting the kettle on... will make a pot for one and all...
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Eva
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 01:16 pm
Oh, Noddy.

That dominion of yours must be awfully wiggly. Hold on tight.

(((HUGS)))
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 01:19 pm
one brocade dominion holder

http://www.brocadehome.com/brocade/images/product/bh_prod103321/bh_prod103321_mn.jpg
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Izzie
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 01:21 pm
Oh... now that's lovely - now, if we could just get Noddy to sit on there, put her toots up and let us pour her a drink ...
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Tai Chi
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 03:56 pm
Nothing but good thoughts to offer. Hoping tomorrow is a better day.
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