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ridiculously shy or doesn't really like me?

 
 
Reply Tue 3 Jul, 2012 11:39 pm
-I had a class with this girl last year, and she tried to talk to me on 2 occasions.
She sat beside me in class and made a joke but I ignored it. Then couple weeks later, she stood in front of me and was smiling at me but I made a "Wtf" expression thinking that its that same weird girl who made that terrible joke.

- For some reason, I saw her in class interacting with another person and she seemed like a nice person. I felt bad about ignoring her. I tried to make eye contact with her so I can approach her, but every time she would be looking down or would look away. School ended and well I didn't think much of it then.

-Since the new school year started, I recognized her from last year. I was starring at her in class on a couple of occasions and her friends caught me every time (i figured this out after)

-consequently, she's been doing various things to get my attention
1)talking louder
2)walking across the room // walking in and out of class - her friends are watching me as I watch her (realized this later)
3)in one of my classes i sit near her and I can hear her ask her friends if I am looking at her, consequently when they nod, she starts twirling her hair and her body becomes a bit hyper or something.

- I realized she was doing this because maybe she still liked me or maybe she just wanted to talk last year but I ignored her for whatever reason -

So, I talked to her we exchanged names and she seemed thrilled. She went on to tell her friends and her friends were starring at me and smiling.

lol.

Well, anyways, she followed me to the school library since thats where I go after class. I knew she followed me, she kept on looking at me with the corner of her eyes while walking. We talked etc.

So I decided to wait for her outside of school - she didn't know I was going to be there. She was a bit nervous and quiet as well. As we approached class she started to walk faster and faster, when we came near the class, she said I was creeping her out (OUCH - i only waited for her since I thought she wanted to talk to me outside of class since she followed me to the library). She was laughing/gigglin while saying this too.

So I thought maybe she doesn't like me. However, next week, I saw her at the library again and she was looking for someone. As we made eye contact she stormed towards the exit as if she was in a hurry. I know she was looking for me.

So I asked her another day if she wanted to get something to eat. She shook her head really fast. I asked why not if she had stuff to do, she said in giggly way she had stuff to do. I was a bit dissapointed/ embarrassed and while walking was just looking at the ground lol. I noticed she was looking at me and as soon as I looked at her, she looked at the washroom sign and said "cya later" and stormed into the washroom.

So, I thought here that damn she doesn't like me I am really creeping her out!

However, a week later, in the last class, she sat near me again. She was eager to get my attention but I was ignoring her. She seemed desperate and sad since I was ignoring her. I didn't see her again since the semester ended. Since were in the same facebook group, as soon as the semester ended, she put a picture of herself up, she is CLEARLY posing and trying to look pretty. She didn't have a picture of herself up for the entire year.


I have no classes with her this semester, yet her friends are following me I guess to see what classes I am taking. I think she is trying to bump into me.

Recently she changed her picture on facebook to a random object - maybe she doesn't care anymore?


What do you think about this scenario?
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Ticomaya
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jul, 2012 12:36 am
@notnpadmin,
Have you considered asking her out on a date?
vikorr
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jul, 2012 02:23 am
@notnpadmin,
Look for the pattern for guidance.

Patterns of behaviour are usually obvious, while individual interactions can occur for a wide variety of reasons.

And Why do you keep ignoring her?
Newlywed23
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jul, 2012 04:35 am
@notnpadmin,
that is super confusing. I hope it works out if thats what you want. My thoughts are maybe she is playing hard to get but there comes a point where you atleast have to give a little clue to as what you want. Good luck!
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notnpadmin
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jul, 2012 11:24 am
@Ticomaya,
I asked her if she wanted to get something to eat, and i posted the reaction above?

isn't that sorta like asking her out?
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notnpadmin
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jul, 2012 11:25 am
@vikorr,
What do you mean patter of guidance?

I ignored her last year by accident I guess. I have not ignored her since then ha.
vikorr
 
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Reply Thu 5 Jul, 2012 11:51 pm
@notnpadmin,
Quote:
Look for the pattern for guidance.

Patterns of behaviour are usually obvious, while individual interactions can occur for a wide variety of reasons.


She has displayed a consistent pattern of behaviour towards you over a period of time. It should be very obvious.

She likes you.

That doesn't mean she'll be easy to get. It just means she likes you.

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I ignored her last year by accident I guess. I have not ignored her since then ha.

Well that's confusing then, because you said this in your original post :
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However, a week later, in the last class, she sat near me again. She was eager to get my attention but I was ignoring her. She seemed desperate and sad since I was ignoring her.

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