@boomerang,
Foot binding, like genital mutilation is, sadly, about a lot more than fashion. In the cultures in which these things were/are practiced they mean/meant the difference between some possibility for a reasonable life for a woman and being cast pretty much upon the dust heap, or looking at a life of poverty and possible abuse.
In these cultures marriage is the only possible life path for most women, and having unbound feet or a whole vulva mean/t that a woman was unmarriageable, or that she would find a husband only amongst the very poor.
Yes, women do have a part in maintaining the tradition, because it appears unthinkable to them to do anything else and be seen as good mothers and women, but the acts were in no way the choice of or to the benefit of women.