@georgeob1,
You are quite right georgeob1
To the extent that the president has a leadership style, it is autocratic in nature. A man of very little humility, his expectation is that he leads by virtue of his magnificence and those of us worthy of his leadership, will follow.
The use of the pronoun "we", by politicians, can sometimes seem forced until one listens to the narcissism expressed by Obama through a use of the pronoun "I" to a degree that, by comparison, is jarring. A perfect example was his crowing after the raid on bin Landen which might have led the causal listener (or Obama devotee) to believe that he was was the very person who put a bullet in the terrorist's brain.
His affection for "I" might be refreshing, but instead it is unseemly.
Is it any wonder that so many men and women in our military are not among his minions?
Effective leaders don't take public credit for the results of their teams even if they may have been the primary driver of that result.
In the killing of bin Laden, Obama wasn't even remotely responsible for the result. He approved, after Valerie Jarret warned him off it for political reasons, twice before, a mission that virtually every person who has ever run for president, let alone held the office would have approved.
This was courageous leadership?
How telling that that the Clinton Ad focused on the political peril Obama faced with the approval of this mission and not the existential peril of the men who carried it out.
All very bad enough, but then we find the White House playing fast and loose with classified information that endangers American operations, American sources (just think about that poor bastard Pakistani doctor who will spend the rest of his life in a medieval prison as thanks for helping America), and American warriors (Does anyone think that the members of Navy Seals Team Six wanted the world to know they were the guys who pulled it off? Does anyone wonder if there was a connection between that shameful revelation and the deaths of members of Team Six shortly thereafter?)
There is no model of effective leadership that vouches for that adopted by our
Great Leader.