Afraid To Speak Up At the Doctor's Office?

Reply Mon 4 Jun, 2012 03:43 pm
May 31, 2012, 12:01 am
Afraid to Speak Up at the Doctor’s Office

A friend of mine, a brilliant and accomplished academic in her 70s who once specialized in history and literature, recently phoned to ask for medical advice after being discharged from the hospital for what sounded like a mini-stroke. Ever eager to learn something new, she pressed me on “the latest research” and asked what doctors around the country were doing for her condition.

We discussed a few research studies, diagnostic tests and treatment options, but when I suggested she speak with her primary care doctor and perhaps a neurologist, her end of the line went silent. I wondered if my cellphone had dropped the connection or, for a single harrowing second, if my friend was having another strokelike event.

When she finally spoke again, her once-confident voice sounded nearly childlike. “I don’t really feel comfortable bringing it up,” she said. While her doctor was generally warm and caring, “he seems too busy and uninterested in what I feel or want to say.”

“I don’t want him to think I’m questioning his judgment,” she added. “I don’t want to upset him or make him angry at me!”

For over a generation now, efforts to make health care more patient-friendly have focused on getting patients and doctors to work together to make decisions about care and treatment. Numerous research papers, conferences and advocacy organizations have been devoted to this topic of “shared decision-making,” and even politicians have clambered aboard the train, devoting several provisions in the Affordable Care Act to “preference-sensitive care.”

But one thing has been missing in nearly all of these earnest efforts to encourage doctors to share the decision-making process. That is, ironically, the patient’s perspective.

Now a study published in the most recent issue of Health Affairs has begun to uncover some of that perspective, and the news is not good. In our enthusiasm for all things patient-centered, we seem to have, as the saying goes, taken the thought of including patient preferences for the deed.

The researchers conducted several focus groups with 48 patients from five primary care physicians in the San Francisco Bay area. First, they showed the patient participants a short video on several equally effective but very different treatment approaches for a heart ailment. Then, they asked them questions about what they did with their own doctors when faced with a choice among several treatment options that might be equally effective but could differ in lifestyle effects, cost or range of complications. Finally, the researchers asked the participants if they were comfortable asking doctors about different treatments, discussing their values and preferences or disagreeing with their doctors’ recommendations.

The participants responded that they felt limited, almost trapped into certain ways of speaking with their doctors. They said they wanted to collaborate in decisions about their care but felt they couldn’t because doctors often acted authoritarian, rather than authoritative. A large number worried about upsetting or angering their doctors and believed that they were best served by acting as “supplicants” toward the doctor “who knows best.” Many also believed that they could depend only on themselves for getting more information about treatments or diseases. Some even said they feared retribution by doctors who could ultimately affect their care and how they did.

The findings fly in the face of previous optimistic assumptions about shared decision-making that were based mostly on studies that examined physicians’ intent, but not patient perceptions. “Many physicians say they are already doing shared decision-making,” said Dominick L. Frosch, lead author of the new study and an associate investigator in the Department of Health Services Research at the Palo Alto Medical Foundation Research Institute in California. “But patients still aren’t perceiving the relationship as a partnership.”

Interestingly, most participants in this study were over 50, lived in affluent areas and had either attended or completed graduate school. “It’s hard to think that people from more disadvantaged backgrounds would find it any easier to question doctors,” Dr. Frosch said.

While understanding health care issues and making themselves heard in discussions were not difficult in general for the participants in the study, the skills and confidence they had in other settings appeared to have little relevance once they were in their doctors’ offices. They could not speak as easily as they normally did. “People experience a different sense of self in the doctor-patient interaction,” Dr. Frosch observed. “The clinical context creates a reluctance to be more assertive.”

Dr. Frosch and his colleagues are working on a larger study examining the extent to which patients feel constrained. And they have plans to study whether there are better ways to encourage patient engagement.

Systemic changes to increase shared decision-making must be addressed as well. Care organizations and doctors’ practices must be restructured to allow more in-depth conversations; clinicians need to be reimbursed for the time required for more meaningful conversations; and health care systems must adopt rigorous quality standards that measure and value real patient engagement in decisions.

“We urgently need support of shared decision-making that is more than just rhetoric,” Dr. Frosch said. “It may take a little longer to talk through decisions and disagreements; but if we empower patients to make informed choices, we will all do much better in the long run.”

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Reply Mon 4 Jun, 2012 03:56 pm
Some even said they feared retribution by doctors who could ultimately affect their care and how they did.

This seems to be very true for many patients, especially those in managed care situations, where a primary care physician (PCP) is involved. Too many PCPs don't encourage patients to question them. Often, the MD may state to the patient, "Well afterall, I did go to medical school".

Another reason some patients fear questioning their MDs is the notion of the "pink slip". If the PCP gets tired of your questions, or if you don't carry out the prescribed remedies for whatever ails you ( Rx, surgery, etc.), the MD may "pink slip" you and thus you'll be forced to find another PCP. This could be difficult for some patients to do, especially the elderly.

One way to handle the "pink slip" situation, if you're unhappy with your Doctor, is to pink slip him/her before they do the same to you. You could be better off, anyway with a new Doctor, who listens and as importantly, one who cares.
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Reply Mon 4 Jun, 2012 04:03 pm
I've more had the problem that I tell a doctor "there's something wrong" only to be brushed off with stupid oversimplied platitudes.


Of course if I'm continued to be treated like I'm not part of the equation, I change physicians.
Reply Mon 4 Jun, 2012 04:10 pm
That's a good idea to change physicians. Sometimes the younger Docs are easier to work with. I think the older ( 65+) ones are too tired to care too much about anything.
Reply Mon 4 Jun, 2012 04:20 pm
So it would seem. I had an aunt who was aware that she was having mental problems. Two, or maybe three told her something like "Well, you are almost 70. This is fairly common". She found another doc, and younger. He discovered a tumor in her neck cutting off circulation to the head. She lost at least ten years apparent age after having it removed.
Reply Tue 5 Jun, 2012 02:15 pm

The older Docs tend to paste a label on the patient, when they note your age on the chart. They are forgetting that todays 50 is closer to 35-40 than to the 50 of ages ago.
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Reply Mon 11 Jun, 2012 12:16 pm
Good for you...
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Reply Wed 5 Dec, 2012 02:49 pm
“The clinical context creates a reluctance to be more assertive

That isn't always the case. Not too long ago, a mental health patient, suffering from depression, pulled out a knife and proceeded to slash his physician during an office visit, because he felt very depressed and the medication prescribed to him wasn't working. He was shot to death by another mental health patient, who was visiting the office at the same time.
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