me and my husband want to spice up our love life

If you try bondage use a safe word always.... So that you know if one or the other have gone too far.

I'd like to ask you why you want to spice up your "love life"... Often people become friends and forget the intimacy that is important.

Is it sex you both seek or love. Or not enought of both or either.

What would you recommend as a safe word......I was thinking..... MORE.

Oh Gossipgirl, Jaysus.. hav ya any sisturs??

Try using Bengay rather than Vaseline . . .

STOP? NO ?

For me I agree

I think those that are beautiful and happy in themselves would not laugh at bengay... actually baby oil is just as good.

Just saying.

Sarah Millican has some useful tips.

You leave your sense of humor in your other pants?


Jeeze . . .

Don't know actually... I pant so you know ...............

Oooo . . . respiration humor . . . you really are the risqué devil . . .

I try, I try **** the devil got me NOOOOOO

Hehe, that was funny!
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As for the OP: if you have to ask, then perhaps you should work on some excitement outside of the bedroom. Have your husband meet you at a bar,
be 10 minutes late, create some suspense. Wear a blonde wig, or if you're blonde wear a brunette one, slip in a sexy outfit and pretend you're just meeting for the first time.

Visit him at his office and surprise him. Should he have no private office,
then send him a suggestive note via cell phone, perhaps a revealing picture
what's waiting for him at home. Get more daring by the hour.....and so on.
What you really want is create suspense and excitement and everything else falls in place.

u can watch videos, read magazines, or search the net.
gudluck!

My wife and I did something similar once. She was out with a few of her female co-workers and I decided to surprise her. I knew where they were at and I showed up and snuck up behind her and whispered that she didn't know me but that I would really love to buy a drink for a beautiful woman like her. So I pulled up a chair and started chatting as though I wanted to get to know her. We talked about what was going on in our lives and after a couple hours I asked her if she'd like to go back to my hotel room. She agreed (thank God!! lol) Anyway, it was a lot of fun and served to spice things up a bit. Her co-workers all hoped I would hit on them next time they all went out, but I was smarter than that.

On a related note, Randy Owen of Alabama sings a song about just that sort of thing. It is called "Let's Pretend We're Strangers for the Night." Check it out. I still swear that the idea for the song came from me. lol