Sat 5 May, 2012 11:32 pm
Hey guys... so, me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about a month now. Before that I fingered her.. I've alwasy been able to give her an orgasm through fingers, by entering and placing my fingers on the roof of the vagina.. she loved it! However.. we started having sex and she likes it, but she can't achieve an orgasm. So I try anyways.. and if she can't cum, I'll use my fingers.. but after sex, she says that going in with the fingers hurts her.. so we end up not doing anything. So today I decided we wouldn't have sex cause I wanted her to cum.. but as I entered.. she said it felt good for quite a while, then she didn't feel anything, and then it hurt.. so we had to stop. I'm really frustrated.. can anyone give me an advice??!?! PLEASE!
@manrik22,
can she get off with clit play? my girl can cum from sex but sometimes its a little harder then others and i just rub her clit while we are having sex she loves it and it usually does the trick. takes a little practice though its kinda like rub your tummy and pat your head lol.
@mataemonaraki,
I think her clit is too sensitive, because whenever I apply oral sex to her, she doesn't like it when I i like it. However when I put my fingers in her she likes it. It's very confusing!
@manrik22,
manrik22 wrote:
I think her clit is too sensitive, because whenever I apply oral sex to her, she doesn't like it when I i like it. However when I put my fingers in her she likes it. It's very confusing!
The whole point of oral sex is to please your partner, and do things that they like. Don't try to please yourself; try to make things good for her.
@DrewDad,
I meant to say she doesn't like it when i lick it, sorry. That's all I'm trying to do.. please her, but I can't seem to achieve it!
@manrik22,
Just lighten up. Think butterfly, not buzzsaw.