why do i want to have sex with so many men?!

All men feel the same way about all women, more or less

You’re perfectly normal, it’s just that you’re willing to admit

Why would you think your attraction to men (or women) would switch off just because you chose someone to be with?

Sexual inclination comes in a wide spectrum :

- some women like only the one male in bed, some like multiple men, some like other woment, some like either sex...so there is a complete spectrum of attractions there

- some women like anal (some don't), some like toys (some don't), some like bondage (some don't), some like pain (some don't)...so there is a complete spectrum there

- some women are exhibitionists, some need a dark room, some like public places, some won't ever consider a camera...none of it is wrong - there is just a spectrum

- some women meet a guy and never really look at another guy, some women marry a guy and can't help but look at all other guys....there's a spectrum of degrees in there.

...you just happen to be at the far end of the spectrum. There's nothing wrong with that - it's just you.

All you really need to do, is work out what you are going to do about it - whether or not you are going to act on it, be faithful, choose a relationship/marriage that is more suited to your sexual drive, or otherwise.

That's the really short version regarding options, considerations (of your husband/partner/kids), and outcomes.