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Tue 10 Feb, 2004 03:13 pm
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Right or wrong, they are not helpful.
Get rid of them by thinking of something else - you can't think two things at once. Why go on entertaining thoughts that can only be hurtful to yourself and your new girlfriend.
I would slow down with the new girlfriend until you have sorted out your feelings for the old...not fair to her...good luck..
Why don't you shoot off your big toe?
Guaranteed to take your mind off her and it's less painful in the long-run!
Or shoot off your pecker...
Fred... I'm sorry. That was mean of me...
but, damn, you are setting yourself up for heartache. I've been there... and as I've told you, I'm still paying child support. Nice kids, but they are truly sons of a bitch.
Ooh yeah Fred - don't take my comment literally either! I'm kidding, but in all seriousness - drop all thoughts of that gal and get on with your life.
Life is long and art is actually short.
Uh, a misquote of a famous quote.
Move on, m'boy, move along. Thwap!!
Six years should do it nicely, even the most forlorn can't dredge it up without great effort after six years.
Me, I have scads more perspective.
Reconnoiter with yourself, sans any woman. Get used to yourself in space. (Or at least consider it.) That turns out to be an eventual favor to a new mate, male or female, that the new loved one is fine by self in space, can even swim.