@lilahneedshelp,
Lilah, the first boy you have a crush on, sticks to you like glue.. You are normal.
However, you know he's going no where in life, his Mother knows that to, he just drifts.. You know he goes from one girl to another, over and over, and uses them for sex... He's told you that...
I think you are asking if "you" are special to him, "different"... I am going to have to say, sorry sweet, but no. See, he's still at least made out with you a couple of times, just like he has with the others everytime, only it didn't quite get there, it would have by your account therefore definately by his account.
Why would you want to be as naive as all those other girls and give him what they all have given him? I bet quite a few of them "thought" he liked them too, just like you do. And, I bet after he used them and left them, they felt absolutely horrible, almost abused, definately used.. How horrible a feeling why would you also want to be like them? Experience that?
You are an A grade student, 16, learning what life is about. Here is your lesson.. You weren't born to be used. You were born to excel and be "equal" in love and sex, when that time occurs, and not ever be used.
Say it over and over and you'll hopefully get the picture and smile when you are 18 that you never let him get past 1st base....
Crushes are crushes, trust me, there is another one just around the corner with another guy....